Let It Be!

Many people are not aware if he is suffering from past trauma. Yes, the shadow of the past was haunted throughout his life, made him always the fear that the same thing would happen again. Thus he became a person who is always in doubt any will do something. As a result he became stagnant, not forward, nor backward. This is a general description for those of us still stuck with our past, can not forget it, and actually hinders progress.

You’ve been there?
I believe the answer is NEVER! Maybe not even only once or twice, but many times! When people were still frightened and trapped by their past, they have proved themselves able to escape from her past and become what he always aspired to a lot of people, namely the great men of his time!

Many people had a business failure not just once or twice. Often! Yet those efforts really began with their own capital, they were doing business with their own hands, they fought with their own head and body, yet ultimately fall. You could feel how bitter business with the container turnover per month destroyed just because one of the steps? Though initially, they had to sweat from the morning until two the night just to transport the statues to the exhibition arena or put it into containers.

There must be many stories of failure. Alfa Thomas Edison failed more than 1000 times before finding a light bulb. But what do we want to remember that our failure again and again? Do we continue to feel frightened to try to succeed again? Moreover, if the ideals we have not succeeded in our passions?

This is our resistance. Our brain is really not designed for such a fear like that. Look at our children under the age of seven years. They are never afraid to repeat what they did yesterday because there was a strong urge to succeed, despite the wounds caused by the failure of yesterday is still there. See how they play, trying to run romp or learning to ride a bike. This is proof that our brains are actually designed to always produce success, not afraid in the past.

What’s really messed up that an external factor? Once we fail, we accept the social stigma that we are people who fail. Many people scoffed, many people ridicule, and even worse many people who do not believe the people who never fail. I am sure many people near us that even if we fail to rejoice.

Our brains are not supposing software, easily affected by the virus from the outside. Social stigma is the same as computer viruses. Stigmatization as it makes our brains produce the hormone negative character that makes us ashamed and scared. By default, it goes into our subconscious minds, so full of failures past that will always haunt us every step to start something new.

Is this life we have to negate the past? Oh, no! Certainly not! The past for us is an album of memories. Try to remember what Thomas Edison’s Alpha. He noted every failure, but after recording it, he stepped out of her past and a new failure, and so on until he had reached his goal, only to find a lamp that is used to shape not as nice as today! Past in the form of failure for Alfa Thomas Edison is just a memory. Similarly, Soichiro Honda noted that his success is only 1% of the 99% failure in the past.

Well, for you who are in the business world, your failure yesterday should be the starting point for your success today. If you feel like a failure yesterday, enjoy. If today you feel successful, be thankful. Nothing is useless in this world. Everything has a relationship with one another.

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